Whether you’re an empty nester - Successful at work but restless and ready for a change?
In the middle of raising your family – Suspect you’ve been working too hard not giving your marriage enough time and attention.
Just beginning your marriage journey- Now disillusioned by changes and “faults”
In marriage, it can be very disappointing when you feel it has stopped meeting your expectations. Many of you may be tempted to play with thoughts of going your own way. At that time, the fantasy of the new life you see looks inviting and wonderful.
Did you know that nearly 80% of the couples who consider divorce seriously and instead decided to stay together, reported later being much happier? This research study was done by Institute of American Values 5 years after the time the couples thought they needed to divorce.
Would You Believe that after over 25 Years of working with other couples, I’m convinced that with the exception of infidelity, untreated substance abuse, (including alcohol) emotional, verbal, physical and sexual abuses of all kinds and mental illnesses, or known illegal activities, most of the problems people choose to get a divorce over are either solveable or at least workable.
Many of the couples that I have worked with over the years have reported that they were much more “in love” with one another and didn’t know why they thought they had needed a divorce.
My work with hundreds of couples indicates that most of them really do not want a divorce but want the pain between them to stop. This is why they often are rushing things because they are in so much pain, even if they don’t always show it on the outside.
Recently, on just a normal day in my practice of working with couples
Unfortunately, this kind of call is not uncommon and in fact, much of the time when husbands call it is because she is packing the car, has already left or has threatened to leave if he does not make an appointment for marriage help.
Even though Luke was feeling desperate, I felt a lot of hope, as I usually do, due to seeing so many other couples make dramatic turnarounds in relatively short periods of time.
During this call, however, it was even better than usual as Luke immediately took responsibility for his actions that had led Audrey to no longer trust him.
Luke had a big personal problem in his past but had been doing well for several years. Audrey had not been part of that bad scene, and she had made it clear from the beginning that those problems would never be an option she would accept within their marriage life.
Audrey had made this “vow” to herself long ago as she watched her Dad with an alcohol addiction and her Mom choosing to ignore it and pretend it was not happening. She had decided she would never allow that to happen in her life and had been quite vocal about it.
A few months ago, Luke had a very painful surgery and during that period of time he gradually became addicted to the strong pain medication. Even though Audrey was cautious and had warned him of her fears, he had appeared to blow her off though secretly he also had concerns. His concerns heightened after going to a known source for illegal meds or drugs without her knowledge.
Audrey was absolutely devastated when she somehow discovered what Luke had done and faced him with her discovery due to his fear of losing her,
When they came for their first appointment, it was clear that Audrey was very skeptical as to whether or not this process could help them work things out as she had lost her total trust in anything he said.
Without disclosing the details of all the repairs that were made, I am so happy to share that within a few weeks, Luke and Audrey are now back on track in their relationship while Luke is seriously back on his recovery path that worked so well for him for years. Audrey, his wife, who earlier did not want to identify with this problem is also getting the support and education she needs so she understands how to be in a healthy place for herself and the marriage.
One of the lessons, Luke learned through this very painful time in their marriage, is that he must keep on the recovery path which was so successful and meaningful to him earlier. During this stage of life with being newly married, having two beautiful children along with a highly successful business, he thought this was enough.
Luke’s recovery turned out to be the most important thing of all. He has seriously re-committed to that now even though earlier he thought he didn’t need it anymore. He learned that he would lose all that means everything to him without it.
Audrey, his wife, who is also very committed to their marriage and family is now willing to join in with some other friends and family members who find they keep healthy by being in al-anon or similar support groups. She is realizing she can also benefit, especially with her earlier background also instead of denying it.
Both have learned some great lessons through this painful time. Always being honest and trustworthy with one another is probably one of the very biggest lessons. Luke laughingly teases (sort of) that Audrey being a part of those ladies will really make him stay on the “straight and narrow.”
Regularly, I get to witness struggling couples reconnect, feel loved and close to one another again. These stories keep me inspired, positive and ready to help other couples like YOU.
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I very strongly believe that you can and do change for the better when you see the need and benefit. I’ve seen many “miraculous” turnarounds in lives during my over 25 years of experience.
I’ve served hundreds of couples as a professional counselor and relationship coach. For more detailed information on my background, please check the About section on my website http://howtodivorceproofyourmarriage.com/ or contact me directly at firstname.lastname@example.org or 719-661-7330!
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